Sometimes I wonder why I’m writing this blog. Is anyone even reading it? Does anyone care? Is it making a difference?
I face these questions every day while I’m trying to write. As well as these: What should I write about? Will anyone care? And I suppose, even if no one cares, I should write anyway because I know that it helps. Writing helps me deal with my depression and often, putting things down on paper helps get them out of my mind. (Hence this post.) But I’m struggling with the fact that I feel stuck. I’m not sure what to write, even though I have an entire list. I’m not sure what people would like to know.
I’m trying to remember that this blog is the first step to bigger and better things. I’m trying to remember that this blog has a goal. A goal, that if reached could make a difference to millions of people. A goal that could make a difference in the field of mental illness. But sometimes, that goal seems so far away, it might as well be impossible.
I feel stuck in my life, in my therapy and in my head. I know the theories on what I need to do to get better and I’m taking my medication, but there are just days when I feel like they aren’t making a difference. I wake up and there are days when i just wonder why. Why me? Why now? Why this? Why?? And nothing I’ve learned, nothing I’ve tried has helped me on these days. These are the days when I struggle. I struggle just to get to the next day. I struggle with my brain and trying to keep it on the right track. I just struggle and honestly, I’m very sick of struggling so hard and so often.
It’s not fun and it isn’t easy. If I had a choice I wouldn’t be this way, but I don’t have a choice. Having depression isn’t my decision to make. It was made for me by my genetics, psyche, biology and environment. I can’t just ‘get over it’ and I’m not just lazy. I have limitations because of my illness. And right now my brain is telling me that I’m not important, that my ideas aren’t important and that this blog isn’t important. And maybe it’s not but I have to keep trying and I have to keep fighting. There is only one other alternative and I don’t consider that an option.
But I honestly want to know, what do you want to know about depression? What questions do you have regarding mental illness? Please message me or comment below.
2 thoughts on “Stuck”
I think feeling stuck and being aggravated about feeling stuck is just a normal phase of depression. At least, it’s been a repeated experience in my life, and I see it in the descriptions of other blogs I follow. We always have to keep reminding ourselves that what our brains tell us in our darker moments is not necessarily the truth. So what I’d like to know, from you and others, is how you remind yourself of that? How do you help yourself keep going in difficult times?
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Definitely some great questions. I will have to think about them and I will address them in a future post. Thank you for your feedback.
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